Marriage

Like everybody knows... I'm a lesbian.  If you don't know, then "SURPRISE!!!!".  So, today we will be talking about "marriage".  I'm a little terrified by that word, concept or whatever you called it.  I'd always been against marriage, I saw it as a way of losing my freedom.
So, for many years I was a happy lesbian.  Didn't have to worried about someone dropping on one knee and say "Will you marry me?" or "Would you like to spend the rest of your life with me?"... Trust me I was happy and ok to know that I was a lesbian ,and I could do whatever I want.  I don't like this one, so you get over and find a new one... Now we have to involve marriage into this life.  Don't get me wrong... I'm very happy when people get married, but I do have a little "inquietud".

I was actually 4 years old when this crazy song came to Puerto Rico, in which talked about "Echa pa' lla Viejo demonio, no me gusta el matrimonio"... if we have to translate for some of you, it talks about this woman who is telling this man to get away from her, because she doesn't like marriage... I was only 4, who would say that I actually grew up loving this song and living to this expectations.  After all, I am a lesbian.  But here is the point we have to look... At the age of 4 I'm saying NO to marriage, and here I am at the age of 30 saying NO to marriage.  It has nothing to do with sexuality... it's just me not liking it.

Good luck to all those who are getting married... I'm happy we get to do the same as straight people, because that's what we called EQUALITY.  Just don't expect meeeeeeeeeeeeee to be the one getting marry anytime soon.  Maybe later... maybe in 10 years, I get to tell people "Guess what? I'm married and I have 2 beautiful kids."  For now? well, right now I want to live my life, be happy and met a ton of women!

I'm terrified of losing my freedom, I'm terrified of getting tired of someone and not been able to say "You know we are done!" when I have to worried about legal fees... Oh My God... more legal fees, more lawyers, more people taking what's mine.  So... for those who feel or think like me, if you are close to your 10 years anniversary and you still wonder if she/he is the one... RUN! You might not want to lose half of your stuff just because she/he can't take a "We are done" for an answer!!!!!!!!!!!!

ATT.  Dindy (The jerk... I know you are thinking that now)